How so? Doesn't the type of action performed simply depend on who takes the first step?
So if PC1 starts to dupe PC2, success is determined by PC1's Duping skill minus PC2's Lie perception skill. If PC2, for example, simply by the looks of PC1 say s "I don't trust this guy", it'll be the other way around!? Similar for guards on watch versus stalking attackers, where the former declare to be on the lookout, so by nature, it is their roll: Observation skill minus the attackers stalking skill?